How
and Why Do We Teach Logic and Reasoning to Young Children?
When my oldest son was about 15, we were having a ‘discussion’ about something
he wanted to do for which I had refused permission. As things were
becoming just a little bit too emotional, I remember saying to him, “I’ve never
been the parent of a 15-year-old before. I’m trying to do what I think is
right, but there are no directions for how to do this. I’m sorry
you have to be the test case.” My son stopped and stared at me --
and then said, “I never thought about that. Now I understand why you
screw up sometimes.”
While
that was not the answer I wanted to hear, my comment and his response brought
some logic and reasoning into the discussion, and the emotions
disappeared. That is usually what logic and reasoning can do for a
situation. When you are having an emotional disagreement with someone,
not much gets accomplished while emotions are in the way. When everyone
has calmed down, logic and reasoning usually reappear, and a thoughtful
discussion can occur. I feel very strongly that if we don’t help children
to develop these critical skills, they will not be able to function
successfully and truly get along with other people.
The basis of logic and reasoning is the ability to search for clues, determine
what makes sense, and make decisions based on concrete information.
Forcing children to know the correct answer and be prepared to regurgitate it
on a test does not develop the thinking that creates logic and reasoning.
However, allowing children to explore with materials to make decisions about
the timing and organization of a project, and, most important, to make mistakes
will create the resilience that children need to be logical thinkers.
The
Excelligence Product Development Team knows I like open-ended products that
promote divergent thinking. Divergent thinking is when we take one
idea and go many different directions with it. From one concept or
product, we can get many different outcomes or possibilities. Think about
our Biocolor or Liquid Watercolor. With one of these products, a child can
create a myriad of projects. The possibilities are endless. Some of
my favorite teaching products are blocks, dough, crayons and paints. I
like them because they provide endless opportunities to promote learning, and
they promote divergent thinking.
I
also like products that promote convergent thinking. Convergent
thinking is using many different ideas or data points to lead to one necessary
conclusion. Think of all the products we have to help children learn the
alphabet. Identifying the letters is the ultimate goal, but there are many
different pathways that can lead to that knowledge. As we provide more
products for supporting curriculum standards, it is important that our products
allow the child and teacher to explore different avenues to help the child
learn each standard skill.
My
son, who is now 35, said to me the other day when we were discussing his 10
year-old daughter, “It is really hard being a parent. Sometimes you just
don’t know what to do.” That comment brought us full-circle and
reaffirmed to me that justice is alive and well in our lives, and I suggested
that he discuss it with his daughter. Hopefully, logic and reasoning will
find its way into every generation of parenting.